For most people, the abbreviation BDSM is very vague. Unfortunately, it is widespread all over the world due to the low level of erudition of people and the distorted presentation of information by the media. Watching the BDSM video and knowing the basic principles of this subculture will help to become more comprehended. 

The principle of voluntariness

BDSM is based on sexual arousal against the background of disregard for social and moral norms and principles. In other words, arousal occurs when people do something that they think is disapproved of by society in everyday life. At the same time, you need to clearly understand for yourself that any actions of BDSM are not an act of aggression, as it happens by mutual agreement and in compliance with safety regulations. 

The partners necessarily have an agreement on what is acceptable and what is not, as well as a stop word (sometimes a gesture), which means the immediate end of all actions.

The principle of sanity

Also a very important concept in BDSM, the meaning of which, however, is quite difficult to determine. The principle of sanity says that only those methods in which both partners are well versed should be practiced, otherwise this can lead to sad consequences. Whatever feelings overwhelm the top, this principle should always be a priority.

Stop word and its meaning in BDSM

As already mentioned, the stop word is a guarantee that the submissive will not be subjected to involuntary violence. There are several opinions about the stop word in BDSM: deciphering it for some means is only a signal that it is worth stopping, but this approach is incorrect in relation to the “lower”. The only correct interpretation of the stop word is as follows: upon hearing it, the top must immediately stop all CM actions and completely free the submissive.